....Ive deleted what i previously wrote for certain reasons........

Ah jeez. I know you like her, but something like this...no one deserves it. If she can't control herself, she should just piss off.

Of course, I think she was wasted at any time she had sex with other dudes, so I'm not sure if you can pin it on her totally. However, 'Drunken words are Sober thoughts'

Keep that in mind.

btw, use paragraphs.

She got drunk and 69ed your friend.

You got drunk and hit her when you found out.

Neither of you are blameless, really. Sit down with each other and talk this shit through.

Holy run-on sentence Batman!

She 'fooled' around twice and you still want to be with her...? <_<

Okay...

Yeah, this is the proper way to go...
But when you talk with her, don't start yelling or getting angry... Stay calm, try not to get excited...

At least your not a women beater. Like the fact that you understand that hitting a girl EVER is wrong, and that warrants respect, although your action doesn't. The real thing bad thing about this is the alcohol, that seems to be the thing that brings out the worst in both of you.

To be honest I would close her completly out of my life. Course I am one to hold grudges but she does sound like slut (no offense). I would find someone better and there is someone better.

What in the hell?!
She 69’d with your fucking best friend three months before you were taking a break!! And yet you still want to fucking be with her or have anything to do with her – what the fuck, man?! If that shit happened to me, I’d just be like "fuck this shit", and not have anything to do with her.

As for your so called "best friend" – fuck him, too! What the fuck are friends for these days – messing around with your girlfriend? Fuck that. What a fucking load of shit. If he really was your best friend – he would have advised her to wake the fuck up and not even think about sleeping around... with anybody!

Seriously, dude – you need to take a long hard think about who the hell you hang out with and decide whether or not this is how you want to live your life – I mean, just this little incident has totally flipped shit upside down for you. It just isn’t worth it.

Also, I don’t think hitting a chick or anybody else is right, but his girlfriend – a man’s love and treasure – had been fucking around with his fucking best friend!! Man, I don’t know what the fuck I’d do if I had to hear that... but hitting her wasn’t totally unjust – she did deserve it after that.

Additionally, I don’t think there should be a line to separate sexes when it comes to who you should or shouldn’t hit – it’s just bullshit, and sexist when you think about it. I mean, I don’t think it’s right to hit anybody – but if they have it coming; then you can’t really blame the person, can’t you? God knows I fucking wouldn't.

Anyway, yeah – using paragraphs would have made that so much easier to read. So do try that in future.

Hope things get better for you, man – and do have a long hard think about this.

Ha ha, the title is true on so many levels....

Anyway, I think someone already posted about her being drunk or something and I agree with whoever that was. I drink, and when I drink I drink a lot (my average cost of a Monday or Saturday night is £60) but never have I ever gone so far to move in on my girlriends best friend, or any of her friends for that matter.

All right, I've thought about it a little bit, and I'd have to say, that you really would be better of with someone else man. I mean if she did that kind of shit now, then what's going to stop it from happening again? She'll just be drunk again.

And this "best friend", there are some stupid things that break up best friends, this isn't one of them. This is actually one of the main reasons andone should fucking kick their best friends ass. Instead of hitting her I would've said fuck you, then gone and taken it out on him.

Yeah, I guess that it is sexist about the whole hitting girls thing...But I was raised on a strictly no hitting girl policy. I mean I'm the guy that opens the door for the girl, ask's if she needs help carrying anything, you know stuff like that. Hitting a girl, for me, would be almost impossible. <_<

i'd have to say...STAY THE FUCK AWAY! trust me, i've been in that situation before, and it's not worth it. I know you're probably thinking something like,"she's just soooo important to me." but that's not the point here. the point is, she did you wrong and you're not being the smartes guy in the world (again, from experience), so you try to give her another chance and it ends up she's fooled around more than you think. so then what. things will only get worse, but you never know, yours might be a different story, so if want to give it another shot, stay away from the alcohol.

as for the woman beater, that sucks nuts. just remember to keep your cool next time.

Take this advice.

I don't know if you love her, you never really said. If you do, then you've got work things out and make sure that it was an accident, and not a trend of hers. Your friend shouldn't be your friend anymore, he was tempted, and he gave in. He doesn't like you as much as you like him, that's why he betrayed you.

If you dont love her, then you shouldn't be with her. If shes just a girl your interested in, then find someone who wont cheat on you. If you love her, and really love her, maybe it's worth the time and effort to sort the mess out.

I could've hit her at the time. I really wouldn't know, I've never been that betrayed. She was at your mercy and you got mad at her and hit her. I'm suprised either of you forgave eachother. Anyway, take my and the above advice. I care about how your story turns out.

It will happen again.
She isn't gonna stop.
For your own good just break up...
And your friend she screwed is a dick. Kick him outta ur life too.

Question, what does the phrase "Taking a break" mean? We don't have that in Australia, and it seems crucial to this story.

Dude wake the fuck up, okay? Don't get back together with your ex, you're better off. But drunk or not, you never fucking hit a girl, that's just common sense, which you should have no matter how shitfaced drunk you got.

Now what's done is done, nothing can reverse that. So here's what I think you should do.

Talk things over with her, apologize for hitting her, but odds are a restraining order and sensitivity courses are in your future if you are found guilty. But no fucking jail time man. What are you serious? You won't go to jail for hitting a girl, no fucking way, fines, restraining orders and manditory courses in sensitivity and that shit are likely, if you don't sort shit out.

But when you do, break it off man. Relationships are a bitch, and if you are in one like this, wake the fuck up and move on. Bitches come and go, usually leaving with more scars then memories, the important thing is that you man up and sort out this situation.

I'd give her a swift punch again for good measure and then when having make up sex, smash her back door in and see how she likes being fucked up the ass.

Sounds like neither of you two(OP and the girl) are mature enough to be in a relationship right now. Seriously.

Some women are devious, but in general trust is always an issue with couples.

As for a the topic to poke some fun and lighten it up with a joke I want to say this...

Yeah girlfriends do suck. Mine sucks real good and now that she married me the only person she's sucking is me, and she sucks REAL good. Ahhhhh! Yeah baby. Just like that. Ohhhh yeeeeaaaah!!!

:haha:

kay bit too much info there WT :lol:
anyway i'd just leave the woman,that's why i...nevermind :ph43r:

Hahaha that made me laugh out loud, right in the middle of class, but yeah anyways i guess i'll give you guys an update on the situation, where to begin.....? yeah were pretty much done now even though i cant stop thinking about her and she dyed her hair black and it looks wicked fucking hot so it sucks even more!! :angry:


But were just friends now and chill and puff and all that shit but she has been playing mind games with me which is pissing me off. One minuite she'll say she loves me and all that shit and will sit next to me and act like she cares and then the next she'll be the complete oppostie way. If this was any other girl i would say fuck it but if you guys knew what this chick has been through in her life you would be going insane too. Now its more of an issue of i want to be there for her to help her with her shit and straighten stuff out. right now shes got her own apartment cause her dad kicked her out and her roommate is a complete bitch she doasnt clean or do anything to help and is usually never even there but when she does come she always brings shitloads of people gets fucked up so my ex always has to worry about if the cops are gonna show up, i wish i could tell you some of the real nasty shit shes been through but its not my place to say, and yeah i suck at using paragraphs but when i talk about shit i dont give a fuck.

Yeah dude its not right to hit a girl but you get shitfaced and hear about your girl fuckin around with your best friend and see how angry and betrayed you feel and if you want to hit her or not then get back to me alright!? Peace.....

Yeah to the first part, about the dying her hair, and the hotness. Sucks for you. ^_^ Nah, I'm just joking dude, seriously don't be angry.

Yeah the mindgames some women play can be hella confusing. You just kinda have to shrug it off, you know? And yeah, I can understand how you feel, if someone like that has problems in their past. You want to help, but you can't.

Overall, this is probably just a messed up time for you, man up, and struggle through.

Peace,

The Black Devil of Outer Heaven