And with that, another relationship down the shitter. This one lasted more then a month and a half now, great...now notice how I'm NOT angry? Or pissy, or heartbroken? Learn from that, because every fucking time I see someone here bitch about how they broke up with their girl and they're bummed out, I want to just find you and throw a fucking dart in their forehead. Relationships fuck come and they fuck go, quit whining. Whine when you break up with your FIANCE' or your WIFE, not a fucking girlfriend.

Now, WHY we broke up...apparently I'm too selfish... :lol:

Selfish, is that what you call always spending money on the bitch? Is THAT what you call always taking her out wherever she wants to go? But that I'm not always down to go out or shit like that, or that she felt I was "pushing" her into sex was selfish. HA, I didn't even nudge, I mentioned it yeah, but that was it. Never nudged. So whatever, bitch doesn't want me, that's her loss, not mine. I'll just grab a Great White, drink a little and go for a drive to the park to play football, *AMERICAN football* and that's all. Am I pissed? No. Am I bummed out? No. Will I call her back? I blocked her number and took her out of my five. :lol:

Ahh that sucks man.

Everyone knows women are the best at burning holes in pockets but not appreciating the size of it.

Im still in the shits about splitting up with my gf...
Then again, she was my first love, so thats a bit different I think...

Haha. Nice one Kam. Good on you.

Go out tonight, get pissed and enjoy yourself. Forget about women. :D

I think "And that's it!" would sum that up nicely...

Well, uh, good for you? Where's the question though? Or a subject of debate or controversy? In short, where is the point of this thread?
Oh yeah, you're BigK... you don't need a point, you'll run us over with your ice-cream truck if we complain otherwise :lol:

<_<

Anyway, it's hard to say "that sucks dude" to someone who so obviously doesn't care about that particular relationship ending, so I won't... just better luck next time? But personally I hate that too, "plenty more fish in the sea" and all that shit. Hard to have your "one-in-a-million" mope when some guy tells you to get over it at the snap of a finger, even if they are trying to help.

So back to being single eh? That must be fun.... I've 'been' with my current girlfriend for 7 months this Tuesday week (I only know cause every month she's brought it up) and it doesn't look like ending any time soon... (sorry guys :( ), I wish you good luck with your (re)instated bachelorship! ^_^

My point is that FAR too many people get all bitchy and mopy, "Ohhh my girlfriend dumped me, I'm such a loser, I'm gonna go cut myself..." Blah Blah fucking Blah! People BITCH way too much. I don't want sympathy, nor should anyone. I posted this to show people how you deal with break ups, you get over it! :D

Me, I'm feeling happy, I get to go now and tackle my friends, so I'm gonna be feelin like a billion bucks by the time I get back. :lol:

And....

I swear to God, if I ever see Sad I will kick him square in the vagina...this ice cream truck bit is all I've become now. The molester ice cream man. I'm great....

Oh well at least you can do absolutly anything now thats why i dumped my gf a while back she was to restricting so as soon as i split up with her i started to enjoy being single (flirting with everyone) she hates me now and im happy in a way because i got nothing stopping me. :haha:

Maybe the reason your not whinny and bummed is because you were only with this girl a month and a half......(and by the way things sound thats the longest you've ever been with someone)

The people you see on here that do get bummed is because they were with their girls 6 months or more and that's when you start to really care and love her and it's harder to just say "fuck it" when you have a relationship that long and really do get fucked over get back to us :D


That's my input on that but it does suck to see your relationship turn into a relation....SHIT....AHHH haha.......i love Dane Cook

Well some relationships that last a long time can hurt a lot. Especially if your in love and never saw it coming. Nothing to kill yourself over though. Other than that I agree. I never been in a real long term relationship. When all my relationships ended I either saw it coming or I was the one who ended it.

ya know a usefull dating tip is that when your tired or your gf or bf all you have to do is ignroe them,not take em out anywhere or anything like that and after awhile they will dump you and that way their freinds aren't pissed off and gonna rape the hell out of ya and you can look for someone else,everybody wins,even though that had almsot nothing to do with the topic at hand,it's a damn good tip
anyway for every girl i've dated(only 2 :lol: ) i'm nice to them at first but they won't stop calling me and bugging me at lunch so i do the above and they break up with me and everybody's happy,but i don't really care much for relationships anyway so it doesn't really matter to me,and this post is getting to long so i'll stop here :P

When I was 25, I was in a relationship with a woman for over 8 months. We broke up in a mutual agreement, our relationship wasn't going anywhere. I spent a month trying to think otherwise, when it was over, I was just fine. It could be a month or a year, when it's over, I've learned that there's no use griping over it. Do you what kind of people do that? Owen Wilson, the guy who tried to commit suicide after Kate Hutson left him. I know that's not what you guys mean, but I've been in relationships longer then a month and ended them, it never left me broken, just end and move on is my motto, that's all I do.

It’s not that simple for everyone. I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost two years and things are going great. We’ve been through some really bad times together but we always come through and I love her with all my heart. She wants to get married and I can honestly say I want that also. I dated around pretty frequently before I met Leah. Even when I started to get to where I wanted to settle down, I couldn’t find anyone. Now I finally found someone I can honestly see myself marrying. If you think I could just forget about her and not be upset or even “broken” should we ever break up, you’re stupid. If you really love someone and want to be with them and maintain a relationship, then things go to shit and you don’t care, something’s wrong with you.
I’m not saying I would never get over her, but I would definitely be hurt for a while. There may be plenty of “fish in the sea”, but I don’t want anyone other than who I have now.
You are right though, there’s no use or purpose wallowing in your sorrow. It gets you nowhere. But I’m just saying, they would have good reason to. At least most people in a similar situation to mine.

There's a large difference between being in a loving relationship and having a girlfriend. Loving relationship, that would hurt. Girlfriend? That's to pass the time.

Haha, good point I guess Biggo. But as JCC also said, I think it depends.

What if its like my old mans case, not married, but been together for nearly 15 years? lol.

That's marriage, that's not a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. You start a family, that is different. Boyfriends and girlfriends haven't even scratched the surface of their own relationship.