I mean, I heard alot of bad stories about girls my age (13-17 demographic) being plain stupid. I've heard that they can be immature, gossip about everything in the relationship, and constantly changing their mind on things.

Should I worry about love or should I wait a good 10 years?

Yeah. If I were you I would waight till 19 or so... Im 17 now and have kind of realized that "relationships" tend to get too complicated at a young age because you think you know what you want but then you dont and then just too much....shit happens. Its kinda hard to explain but yeah...i would wait.

Now that's a fucking question and a half.

I'm not sure anyone here could really answer that properly for you. Some people are ready at an early age, some aren't, it's really what feels right for you.

As with your thing about girls, that's the same no matter what age group, you get girls like that, just the same as you get fantastic one's in any age group, it's really luck of the draw.

My advice, if you're not sure, just go on a few dates, have some relationships, maybe not full blown serious ones, but you know, look around, see what's right for you, get some experience. Then maybe you might be good for a serious relationship with someone, or discover it's too early and then wait a bit.

But it's really all up to you man.

Love is like a diamond-shaped glass. Some say it's unbreakable. But it is still glass.

So mehtacular.

It's true dude. Waiting is your best option. Though you might be physically ready, that bears no correlation with your mental and emotional state. Metalmalitia23 and cardboard box dude have made some valid points - your outlook on life changes a lot from around 15 to 19 so a decision made about this when you're older is more likely to be one made with a level head. If you have doubts and inhibitions, chances are you're not ready (and your conscience will make that clear for you). But the time will come maybe sooner, maybe later, and that'll be the time for you. General advice:

- Don't take too much notice of what other people have to say about their experiences. Curiosity will play a bigger and bigger role the more you listen to their crap.
- Sex is overrated - whether you've done it or are waiting to do it, it's not a fantastically life changing event. It's all about personal preference and what you are comfortable with.

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Yeah, everyone thinks when they do it it's going to be this big huge magicial emotional carpet ride but its not.....

The first time had sex 3 of my friends walked in it kinda sucked but it was really funny afterwards.

In reality the first time you do it, its kind of awkward and your not really sure what to do or how to act and then one of THE biggest mistakes guys make is once theve done it a couple times and both parties are more comfortable with each other most guys will try to do shit they see in porn and thats a big no no.

Once and only once i tried somthing i saw in porn and it just didn't work out....too complicated too hard....

So yeah....wait till your older

I don't know, it depends.

There's one girl that I've liked for two years now, and she's the only girl that I care about in a relationship capacity.

But then on top of that, I flirt a hell of a lot and there's quite a bit of sexual promiscuity involved (handjobs under the table par exemple mein audience). I guess friends with benefits is your only secure bet, since a lot of girls at this age just aren't ready to give up their childhood.

Unless your totally dedicated and completely infatuated with your girlfriend and she feels the same, don't go worrying about love. Just seek what every other horomonal teenager on the planet seeks. Lust.

Yeah, that's what I'd say to.

Live your youth while it's here, man, you'll miss it when it's gone.

The man who HAS lost his youth would like to agree with this quote.

You're only 14 or 15 years old, don't even stress bout the women yet, there's PLENTY of time for that, just enjoy your childhood and teen years while you still have a chance. Because when you're my age, you're gonna REALLY miss these years.

I wouldn't worry but if you like somone give em a go if it lasts then your lucky if it dont get sliting your wrists at this age its just a bit of fun IMO an it probably won't last but at the end of the day it all depends on what type of a person you are.

It won't last. And don't bother trying to make it last.

Here is the test for whether it's worth the effort: Do you feel like spending your life with this person? Can you imagine getting old with her and loving her when she's a wizened representation of her former beauty and your head once full of hair is a shiny bald noggin? No? Then it's a crush, get the fuck over it.

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This pretty much sums up my approach to all the responces in the topic. Theres nothing here I don't really disagree with. I guess I just have to give this a try, but that raises another predicament:


I'm not allowed to date women, and I can't "flirt". My only contact I have with the peticular girl I'm interested in is a Fencing Club I visit twice a week, for three hours tops. Meh. :mellow: