What the hell is it about women that is so fucking kinky? Anyone else ever have this happen to them? My girlfriend lately, she said she was curious if I wanted to try something new three nights ago, I asked her what she meant, she said in bed, I said okay, what new? She said she wanted to see if I was interested in a three way. And the minute she said that, my brain hit a stand still, the left side of my brain looked at the right and asked if she was joking, and the right side shook its' head and told me to handle the situation

So I did, and I just said absolutely not, I don't want any extra sausages or tacos, neither of us are bi, maybe she's trisexual, willing to try anything once, but regardless, no no no, I am strongly against a three way for numerous reasons, I want it to stay between us, sex is supposed to be intimate, why the hell would we have to tamper with that and bring in the three way? Secondly, how the hell does did that idea pop up? I mean I'm good in bed....so she says, so why spice up when we're spicy enough? And finally, I don't even know the mechanics of a three way....nor do I intend on finding out....

I hate it when you gotta try new things, like exploring or eating new things is one thing....but not a three way, fuck that, and I don't mean that literally either.

Anyone else ever get this shit from their girlfriend or wife? And how did you handle the situation? I don't necessarally mean a three way, but like anything "out of the ordinary" with your spouses or girlfriends?

Wait. You wouldnt want a threesome with two women?

BigK just got gayer (;

That closet is pretty damn dark BigK, are you sure you don't want to step out?

When you both get Gonnaria, and discover there's no intimacy in your relationship anymore, don't say I didn't warn you.

God darn it BigK, just open a six pack, chug em' down and fuck both of those fine female species.

*ROARS WITH MANLINESS*

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Come on, you guys are way too young to be thinking that. When you get to be my age, you'll feel the exact same way as I do, I guarantee it.

I won't. Unless I become asexual.

Maybe BigK, but without being a cunt (I'm going to sound like one anyway) I consider myself more sexually experienced than you (only because you've only recentley lost your virginity) and very emotionally mature if i do say so myself so therefore, I think my opinon is unlikely to change when I get to your age. Sex should be enjoyed in any way possible..and if that means you've got one more woman along for the ride than wahheyyy. Jackpot.

Also, I would like to point out that if you are insecure about the relationship to the point where adhering to your partner's certain unorthodox desires springs to mind as being un-meaningful, then I think that it's time to re-evaluate your position with this woman. In a truly meaningful relationship, your partner's certain curiosities should be thought through first without being immediately condemned. There's nothing un-meaningful about allowing your partner to try something new and different.

Its funny, because when your with mates, its like, every mans dream, a good three way. Oooo yeah.

But I totally understand, I dont think I would want too either. It would be different if you were single and two hot ladies ask you for it. Then yes, but otherwise no.

But still, nice thought....

That means im currently in my prime! Muhahaha.

Ive even got someone offering to make a video :o

I do agree with you to some extenet. itd have to take maybe loads of talking and considering it but my initial thought would be no. Unless they were a younger generation Britney Spears (When she first released songs and was HOT)

LMAO... trisexual?

No such thing. You mean Bisexual... as in likes both male and female.

You can't go beyond two.

Don't underestimate the power of the...hamphrodite :mellow:

I don't know what the hell it is, but I just don't want to be a part of that. There has to be SOME level of purity in a relationship, especially when it's actually serious.

Uhhh huh....having sex with another person doesn't make it less meaningful...I'll tell you what bud, have a 3 way when you turn 21, if you feel the same way, call me up, and I'll mail you a beer.

Mature or not, you gotta look at the bigger picture, it's another woman, it can lead to further problems, like wanting to do it more often, and if you recall from James Bond, sleeping with numerous women can lead to negative things, also, suppose she decides, we've had 2 women long enough, now it's HER turn.....I'm not down with the sausage, never have been, never will be, and if I were to say that, she'd think I was selfish, but since I didn't want to do a 3 way, the system works.

I explained to her when we spoke about this, I am just very uncomfortable with going to any extreme, especially when it was just last year that this whole experience opened up for me. Baby steps kids, baby steps. Though even then, I doubt ten years from now I'll be interested in the three way either.

If I were in your situation I would really do the three way. I think you will regret it later if you don't do it.

LoL I can see both points of view. Big K doesn't want to because he likes his relationship the way it is and doesnt want to change it. But for a lot of men (mostly ones who haven't matured enough or single guys or dirty basterds (like me) :P) that is a dream I don't think you will regret not doing it, but I think its somthing new and refreshing. But at the end of the day it's up to you BigK :).

I know on the last three way topic I said "go for it" but I don't think it is right anymore. If you are going for a decent long lasting relationship then don't do it. I would want to do it but I would rather go for a more "meaningful relationship"

Yeah thats what i ment (sorry if i went off on a story :P)

You're right, but I would just regret it if I would not do it :)

I just think things would get real akward after the sex. I mean like what if he showed more attention towards the other person rather than his own girl friend. Alot can offend a girl and 1 thing can ruin it. 1 thing goes wrong the whole thing spoils. Do what you want.

I agree with your decision BigK. If these were two girls that you didn't have a relationship with, then that would be a completely different story. You should not even consider having sex with another woman if you are truly serious about the relationship you are in. To tell you the truth, even if this is her idea, you may end up getting hell for it in the end. She could be angry because she might think you liked the other woman in bed more than her, or hell, it could be a test to see if you are serious about the one on one relationship you are currently in with her.

Honestly though, if you two truly care about one another, then it should be the two of you, not the two of you with a third added. I can't imagine having a strong relationship with a girl, but having sex with another, even if she is there..

my girlfriend has hinted that she'd be okay with a three-way so long as there was a second girl involved (my gf is bi)
now of course I joke about it with my friends, but in the end I'd probably say the same thing as you; FUCK NO!
First of all I probably couldn't handle it. I'd finish early and have to watch them keep going with the worry in the back of my mind that my girl likes this other girl more than me.
Second of all as you said sex should be intimate between two people, not fun for three.
Third of all I'd feel way too dirty about it.

of course on the other hand it would be SUPER HOT lol

Ummm....why is everyone saying go for it? I already told her as soon as she suggested it, I wasn't down.

I mean, not to sound like a cunt or anything like that, but I'm not gonna base doing or NOT doing a 3 way on what people half my age suggest....I posted this because I wanted to see your thoughts on if YOU'D do it. See, the decision was already made, I already said I didn't want to do this, and she was more than okay with not having Manaujeh' Tuah.

I mean my girlfriend's straight like me, but she wanted to sorta...test it, now she's back to one on one. She mentions now and then, "The whole idea IS kind of dumb when I think about it....still, it might be interesting." I agree, but I'm not up for it, and I don't think she is either honestly.

BigK, I'm on your side. Anyone with experience of a serious and stable relationship past highschool crushes will be on your side*.

True experience with a relationship is what I mean, so thank you.

See folks, it doesn't matter how sexually active you are, it's when your relationship is starting to get serious, like mine, that you see it in the way of a three way possibly destroying the balance we had set up. It may or may not, but why risk it? And plus, doing something so kinky just doesn't sit right with me.

Eh, I've had an experience of a serious relationship but I'd still do it. But I dunno man, maybe it's not the way to go..it all depends on your perspective, not a third partys. No ones really wrong or right..just a personal preference at the end of the day.

That was the smartest deepest comment I have ever heard about 3-ways :o.

Off course; I never claimed my view was the end-of of all views.(I save that for the console threads. ;)) I know there's people that have polygamous(sp?) relationships and really; credit to them cause I would never be able to do it.

That's a massive generalization.

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I can guarantee that I would be much more experienced than you are Kam, sex and relationship wise and I personally would have done it. I've often wondered what threesome would be like and if my partner was the one to suggest it, I certainly don't see a reason not to. If two mature people can agree to let a third person in for a night, I don't see the harm, something different to spice up the sex life isn't a bad thing.

If you're both confident in the feelings you have for each other, than there shouldn't be a reason to worry about feelings/jealousy/whatever about the third person.

BigK, maybe you should think of it like this: Better it's with you then the other chick's boyfriend, amirite?

If you and your girlfriend bring in a third party and it not affect the relationship, I would take that relationship to be one that should last.

I'm saying, from a scientific stand-point, it's your duty to have this threesome to test the strength of your relationship.

Except for the fact that you're bring a third person into the mix. Stable or not, I have no intention of risking that. I mean not having a 3 way doesn't mean you have a weak relationship, it just means you don't want to complicate things.

Sex wise, yes, relationship wise, I got ten years on you...unless you were getting girlfriends when you were 8, hehe...

Exactly, as such, my perspective is this, I try to live as clean a life as I can. I drink more than the normal guy should, but that's another story. The fact of the matter is that I don't think it will DESTROY my relationship, I just don't want her to think any less of me, or think that I can be up for it 24/7. There's too many risks in my mind. And what's most amusing to me is that not a single person here saying I should've done it has had a three way....except for Bogansnake, I suppose.

Don't worry Kam, you can't contract an STD in your imagination.

i duno if i'd do it, reasons being: ive had my girlfriend over a year now, if she suggested a threesome then its most likely that IF she wanted it with another girl it would probably be one of her friends, i'd just feel to weird pumping one of her mates and there all good looking too so i wouldnt want her getting all jelous if i paid more attention to her mate than her, i'd be far to confused in a three way like "shit how long do i fuck her for? do i fiddle with my girlfriend at the same time? have i been doing her mate too long now? should i swap?" haha its all too confusing.
IF she wanted it with another guy after that then it would be like "erm...NO!" then she'd pull out the "two girls" trump card and beat me down with that till i aloud her to have another sausage. now i wouldnt really want any of my mates fucking my lady and i'd be even less comfertable having one of her boy mates pumping her who i dont even know. firstly it'd be like "ok how do i acknowledge this guy? 'HEY! so looking foward to it?'" hmmm no dont think so.
i had a mate telling me that he and his girlfriend had threesomes all the time but with two ladies. then one day she wanted another cock. he eventually let it be and said it was the worst decision he ever made, created a monster. after that she became the village bicycle. not a good idea.
i've had a threesome, but it was me and my friend and just the one girl, we was all drunk and hardly knew the girl, we was safe and used condoms and shit tho, it was a funny experiance though and i'd say to anyone to go for it, especially if theyre a proper slut who dont give a shit cause its just so funny hahaha, sorry if that sounds rreally gay, but it is, seeing who can make the most mess on her face haha, it was a laugh and she loved it too,

so in conclusion, threesomes are good with sluts, not with girlfriends... in my opinion

^^^Not bad, not bad at all. the topic of threesomes came up with me and my ex-girlfriend(sorta) but we just never did it. She used to be bi (and still kinda is, she likes to fuck around with other girls but not date them) so a threesome would have been no problem with us.

I understand what BigK is trying to say though. When your really deep with someone you like that to be only between you and that other person. You don't want to "share" them i guess you could say. And don't get me wrong i probobly would'nt pass up on a threesome(depending who the other chick is) But it still would be really fucking awkward. Your not sure who is going to be in control and when to stop fuckin one gril and start the othe, or if you should sit back a while and let them fuck around.

Give it some time though maybe you will change your mind. It's perfectly fine to try it once. Because if later you actually decide you want to and then your girl isnt up for it anymore you will be like.....FUCK WHAT DID I DO!!!!

I didn't know you liked your hand so much.

Har har, you are one funny young man, aren'tcha?

I don't think you should do that. To be honest, a three way is just like cheating.

I don't think it's a good idea.

I'm not, I already passed the offer, and won't ever take it. A part of me is really surprised at the responses I've seen, but it was only for input, not for helping me choose.