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Alright first off, if you are with this girl, but have no true feelings for her, you need to explain to her and move away from her. Either that, or find a way to get over the first two girls. Find their flaws, and do everything you can to completely get them off your mind. They've done nothing for you, and don't deserve any affection from you, especially the cheating one.

Girls are tricky business. They are most confusing. Anyways, like I said, if you don't have romantic feelings for the girl you are with, then you are being unfair to her. Even if she is beautiful, and likes you, there is no sense stringing her along if you don't feel the same. That would mean you are doing the same as girl #1 and #2. If you do have feelings for her, then seriously, get rid of the other two. Like I said before, they have done nothing to deserve your affection, and thus should not have it. I know that these things are more complicated than that, but I honestly don't know what else to say.

Seems to me that SL has got it pretty much on the nail I think.

Yeah, I've been in situations like this before....and I still don't know how to solve it. Because belive me when I say I know what your talking about. And you don't want to hurt any of the girls, but then you can't shake that you have feelings for them, and don't want to leave any of them behind.

I would suggest though, doing as SL said. Just focus whatever you got on that one chick and treat her well.

[Moved to Confessions]

Dude, i know exactly what you mean, im still caught up over the girl i made a really long topic about when i first joined here and now its led to me being kicked out of my band because kept lying to my friends just so i could hang out with her and be closer to her and its gotten me no where thus far. Even today, ive been really depressed about it. I can NEVER get her out of my mind. And now her and my band which are the two things that matter to me the most are gone...

But i think you and I both know what has to be done but are just to afraid to do it. And deep inside you(and i) dont want to let go, you want to feel what you feel but you know that its just not going to happen. And you play scenarios in your head of her comming back and the idea is nice and can comfort you for a short while but then you realize that there just thoughts.

The fact of the matter is you have to get her completly out of your life. Dont talk to her at all, get rid of everything she ever gave you or anything that reminds you of her. And even still though, theres no garuntee that you will stop feeling the way you do, and I say its just something that has to happen with time.

Theres really nothing anyone can say or do to make shit better, love is something that is imprinted in your heart and wont let go no matter how hard you try. You feel hopeless, angry, and confused all at the same time and its such an internal mindfuck that somoetimes you feel nothing at all.


Fuck im so emo, .....anyways i dont know dude. Time, thats all anyone can really say, give it time and you will forget. I for one am just really sick of feeling so fucking depressed all the time and lately its been pretty bad since i tgot kicked out of my band.

Ehem........FUCK

Hahaha Monkey, you and I should start a band where all we do is take mushrooms, mope about our ex-girlfriends, and play MGS.

Which reminds me, sarcasm helps alot with depression. Well at least for me anyways..

Well, I have always thought love shouldn't be restricted to one person, but anyway:

I think you should stay with girl #3. If you opt to leave her and then decide afterwards you actually do love her, you are going to look like an idiot. As much as you may like girls #1 and #2, if they're bitches, then stay away from them.

is say stick with her, but tell her your problem so she might be able to understand what you're going through. and if it doesn't work out, continue trying to get the other @#$%ers off your mind.

I know what's going on here 'cause my brother's having the same problem, but he's an idiot. <_< I trust you to be somewhat of a higher intellectual because you've already realized the problem on your own, which is good because as they say, "the first step to fixing a problem, is to find it."

haha that sounds like a plan ;)

yeah well cheers to everyone who gave me advice and stuff, really got me thinking and has helped, i want u all to go away with a sence of achievment today, you've done a good deed today! haha
well its valentines day tomorow... well today actually.. im gona see how that goes, im taking her out for a meal and i'll see how the night goes (i have a feeling shes got me a metal gear solid related present! haha)
but once again thanks guys! x

p.s Metalmalitia u aint an emo haha dont worry