my parents recently divorced from one another, my mom is living in sunnyvale and my dad moved in our house near blossom hill san jose. custody of my two youngest siblings is joint but they'll have to spend most times at sunnyvale since both their schools are in the cupertino district.

it's just wrong, my dad basically won't be able to see my siblings much anymore all because neither him nor my mom wanted to just wait two more years. in two years my brother and sister would both be out and in college, now it's just going to be hard on all four of them. i just hope it all plays out well.

Ahmad and Kimia are dealing with it just fine, Ahmad's gonna take Kimia with him to visit Dad once a day for a few hours, so it's not a complete mess in all honesty, everyone's couping their own ways.

It happens all the time. Even I had to experience it myself with my own family, but my dad's dead now. Oh well, lol.

My parents are also doing it,albeit ''unofficially''.
They both agreed it'd be best this way.
Me and my mom go to another city,he stays.
Seeing as we're planning to sell our house,some meetings were needed to decide how do we sell the house.
My sister also has a say in this,but some problems happened because my dad acted all sad and stuff when we were talking about it. My sister was left with impression that he actually wanted us to stay...
I don't know what the old fart is after,but I won't let him get in my way.

My parents divorced many years ago. I was still very young at the time. Never bothered me much.

yeah, I can see how that can mess up a child's life. but it shouldn't effect them that bad if they're old enough to understand.

but yeah, my mom divorced my biological father because he was a giant douche bag and we never saw him again. It didn't affect me (mainly because I had/have the memories of him beating us fresh in my mind every time I think of him...asshole), but my brother didn't come out the same. now he suffers from huge abandonment issues and needed therapy for awhile before he got over it. but the thing is he's starting to act more and more like our biological father that it's starting to worry me. I'm sorta afraid he might get too abusive to his girlfriend (which he already is and we've gotten in many fights over) and just lose it and I'm gonna have to kick his ass...again. :(

Its quite suprising just how many Parents divorse, look at this thread for example, 6 posts, 6 divorces. I find it a terrible shame becuase it can be so so hard on the children. My parents are not divorced by the argue a hell of a lot which makes me worry they may. My Mum is always saying to me (usually after an argument) 'I'm only staying with your father for your benifit' which always pisses me off - is she trying to make me feel bad on purpose? I think they still love each other though. My Dad treats her like a Queen and whenever we go on flights (my Mum is VERY scared of flights, like traumatic type scared) she never stops going on about how she loves him. This indicates to me she is also saying what she says to me to make herself feel she is doing a good deed. In a nut shell what she says pisses me off.

Anyway, I can only hope they wont split up and offer my sympathy for all those with split parents. My Aunt and Uncle are in the process of divorcing at the moment and that is taking a heck of a toll on the family.

Yeah....Don't feel like typing or talking about it, but My parents divorced as well.

Later.

Sorry to hear mate but dont worry something might bring then back together ;)

That propably won't happen you know.

Not that I know anything about the situation.

Thanks to my abusive parents, they made me a monster. But I'm trying my best to fight my demons since I really get out of control when I'm mad. I visualize myself to be Solid Snake who is fighting against his accursed genes.

Thankfully my parents never married so when they split up it wasn't tangled in paper work, although they made it last till just before i was 9, still don't know how.