ok theres this girl I really like (not the one from about 3 months ago I figured out who she really is) And I really like her and she likes me too. But my friend likes her alot and I really want her as a girl friend. I mean where we have alot of the same intrest and to be honest she is everything I ever wanted in a girl friend. I don't want to screw up my friendship though. I don't know what to do but I really like her and it hurts to see her with anybody else

Never ruin friendships over girls dude...never.

I learned the hard way! haha, but see who she likes, maybe she'll choose you over your friend. He can't be mad if thats the situation, and if he is, then just talk about it with him.

I hope everything works out though man...

Also, wraith, go check out the post I made in the JUO forum, its important.

You should tell this to your friend and see how he feels about it. If he says it's okay if you like her so much you go for it. If he says like''no way man'' you guys gotta make a agreement that none of you guys gets her. Or youre friendship might be ended.

I am not going to give this one up never fornever!!!

You mean the girl? Or your friend?

Dude just talk to your friend and say how you feel, and then decide what to do, the way he reacts.

i mean the girl.

Then talk it over with your friend, and see if she has a hot friend...I always used to compromise with my buddies that way...

Sigh...fucking puppy love.

Tell your friend that you have plans with this girl, and you would appreciate if he didn't interfere. If he does anyways, he's not much of a friend is he?

But on the flipside, how much of a friend are you if you won't give him a shot?

I think this should be up to the girl. If she really likes you, then i'm sure it's you she's got her eyes set on, not your friend. Keep working her pal!

I fully subscribe to the "I found her first" philosophy.
I would just say it's up to the girl to make her decision, but then I realized were talking about a teenager who will change their mind every 5 seconds.

Competiting for girls is not something I'll put myself through these days.
I'd rather just find a woman.

I talked with my friend today and he took it better than I thought. He started joking around and started calling me a basterd and then he said that his chances were already bad and now they are worst. I told him I would give him one chance and if he failed,she's all mine.


I will end up getting her though