Johnyman

Mar 4 2008, 02:31 PM

So now I am supposed to just wait? Ok,cool...

BigK

Mar 3 2008, 05:06 PM

I predict this lasts another 5 pages before it gets locked again.

Anywho, Dr.Fuck-Phil, my girlfriend recently stated I was insensitive for not knowing yesterday was our "3 month anniversary" to which I responded it's only been 3 months, it's good but not anniversary good, we should wait til we get serious before calling it ANYTHING. Sheeeeeeee didn't like that.

So any notion for that? My friends mostly agree, the only one who didn't was my friend Carla, but she always disagrees with me. I think it's her kicks..... <_<

wertwhile

Mar 5 2008, 06:33 PM

Yeah do you guys know any way to cope with nervousness when asking out someone?

The Black Devil Of Outer Heaven

Mar 21 2008, 08:33 PM

Don't expect much help.....but felt like saying it anyway......

I've got this girl that I've known for about 8-5 years....started going out a little while ago. Of course when you go out with someone they open up more than when you were a friend. Well....she's had past boyfriends and they weren't say....all that great. Well I had been hearing rumors about here and some other dude....so I calmly asked her about it...calmly mind. And she started to fidget and get all nervous....I thought it meant she felt guilty. But she said she wasn't even talking to him and I believe her...but she was still acting the same way. (And here is where I get angry.) I asked what was wrong...and after about 20 min. of trying to get her to tell me....(she finally writes it on a paper)....She's afraid of being hit. :wacko: She had told me this before. Her past boyfriends would hit her. :mellow: And she formed the mentality that it was her fault...and she thought I was going to hit her too.

I'm 6' foot, 188 pounds, and max out on bench at about almost 300.....But hitting a girl? And yet she thought that even if she hadn't talked to him....that it didn't matter what she said because I was still going to do it. Well maybe not that, but she didn't really trust anybody.....

So now I've got a girlfriend who's to scared to tell me she loves me because of what's happened to her before...... *Sigh*....sooooo....Yeah....

wraith shadow

Mar 21 2008, 07:05 PM

keep calm with her. Don't get angry or anything unless it is needed.

Yackemflaber

Mar 10 2008, 05:55 PM

one of my best friends who I've known since we were like two years old suddenly hates me and has cut off all communication.

I had just treated her to supper and a school basketball game for her birthday, and we had a great time and we even let some personal feelings out and she ended up crying in my car on the way home (she was also PMSing, I might add)
and then suddenly like three days later we're talking online like normal, and suddenly she starts cursing at me and then blocks me on everything; AIM, Myspace, etc. She won't return phone calls or text messages, she won't tell me what's wrong. My girlfriend is friends with her and says she just expects me to know what I did wrong.
This was two weeks ago. I haven't heard from her since.

It really hurts me because we really were like best friends, I called her my sister and she called me her brother, after everything I've done for and with her I couldn't believe it. Especially when my birthday came and went and she didn't call or anything to wish me a happy one. I feel very hurt, betrayed, and confused.

I've sought the advice of others and they all say I should just wait it out, which I believe right now is all I can do, but I recently talked to a friend of ours and it turns out she suddenly stopped talking to him months ago without a reason.

Is there anything I can do besides wait for her to hopefully come around?

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Well, I get a LOT of bizzare thoughts. Some of them diminish my sense of reality and fiction, truth and lies, they're the worst ones. I won't elaborate on WHAT they are, but they really do blur the line between reality and fiction. I suppose I can relate to Raiden on Arsenal Gear in that sense. Snake's words
"Find something to believe in, and find it for yourself." are extremely inspirational. Raiden is caught in a situation when his mission was a complete and utter lie. That made him unsure in the future, whether people were lying, whether your mind is playing tricks on him etc.
My life hasn't been a complete and utter lie, but I do get extremely unsure of reality, whether people exist. It's impossible to know for sure, and is one of the things that tear me apart. I suppose Metal Gear has helped me in this, because people are put into similar situations. The fact is, nothing is absolutely certain (I'm not meaning to quote Snake here), and we'll never know what is and isn't real.

• "Reality exists in a place unknown, and dreams exist within reality... and truth lies in your heart."
  

• "It is only the mind that takes reality and separates it into what is bad and hateful.
  ...It is only the mind which separates reality from truth."
  

• "Any new position from which you view your reality will change your perception of its nature – it's all literally just a matter of perspective."
  

• "There are as many truths as there are people.
  But there is only one truth – that is your truth. That's the one that is formed from whatever point you choose to view it from. It's a revised perception ...that protects you."
  

• "One can also have a perspective that is far too small.
  However, a person can only see things from the perspective that they choose to see them from."
  

• "One must learn to judge things via the perceived truths that one receives from others."
  

• "For example, sunny days make you feel.
  Rainy days make you feel gloomy."
  
  "If you are told this is so, then that is what you believe is so.
  But you can have fun on a rainy day, as well."
  

• "Your truth can be changed simply by the way you accept it – that's how fragile the truth for a human is."
  

• "A person's truth is so simple that most ignore it to focus on what they think are deeper truths."
  

• "If you know yourself, you can take care of yourself."