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| Topic Started: Jun 8 2008, 03:00 PM (436 Views) | |
| Yackemflaber | Jul 9 2008, 05:34 AM Post #21 |
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one mighty bump to my own topic, but I'm wondering now if anyone has experienced a situation where their best friend completely lets them down and you no longer view them as a best friend if that happens, what would you do if you knew they were sorry and didn't want to drift away but you still know that they can't change back in an instant? Like if they want to still be your friend and don't mean to hurt you, and you want to be their best friend too, but they just keep letting you down and you're getting tired of it? |
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| glarbinator | Jul 10 2008, 06:32 AM Post #22 |
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^I think I've had something like that. I had two really close friends, and I liked one of them for about 5 years at the time, and my other best friend decided to start going out with him. The thing that bothered me the most was that I was the last to know. =/ I haven't really been close to her since, but my other friend Tim I still talk to. Not nearly as much as before. I don't really have really close friends anymore. My closest friend is my sister, I think. <3 |
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| Solidcon | Jul 10 2008, 04:03 PM Post #23 |
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I have two friends that mean the absolute world to me, one I've known for about three/four years now and we just clicked and are closer then sisters. The other, we've really just met, but we have so much friendly chemistry it's like we've known each other our whole lives. |
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| Trunks | Jul 12 2008, 02:49 AM Post #24 |
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i had 2 best friends. the 3 of us, best friends since we were 4 years old. a new guy came into our group, and one day he was gettin bullied. So i helped him out, but ended up in a 3 on 1 fight. My 2 best friends (and the new guy) turned their backs and left me to it...never forgot that |
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| Null | Jul 12 2008, 06:55 PM Post #25 |
I'm the least you could do, if only life was as easy as you.
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^ Had a similar situation actually. I was chilling with friends in a local park, we had rolled up a few spliffs and it was the start of summer so we were just looking to kickback and relax after a hard school year. I was kind of high already and so were my 3 other friends then after about half hour we noticed a group of boys approaching us, must of been about 10 or 15 of them..lookin' quite rowdy. I didn't want to take my chances after being mugged countless times before so I just told everyone to split. But..a few of them were being stubborn, they haden't experienced being robbed or whatever before so they stayed put. So..I stayed, and just as I had predicted they started on us. Few of them had knifes and were just being generally threatening and shit. They picked a fight with me and this other kid who I didn't know very well. I was expecting my friends to jump in but nothing..they had run off. At this point I was pissed but had to try and concentrate while being quite high..I fought them off and I noticed that they had turned their attentions to this other kid, and were literally kicking the shit out of him, beating him up seriously bad. So I jumped in and tried as much as I could to get them off him, and one of them slashed a knife in my face. When they did that alot of the guys pussied out cause they could see me bleeding and thought I was gonna die or some shit so they all ran off like pricks. So I got up and noticed absolutley no one was there anymore. I mean, I know these guys wern't my closest buddies but seriously..thats when I realised how cowardly people can be. That alot of people know how to talk themselves up something mean but really don't know how to carry themselves in real situations. They took my phone, money and my cigs and I didn't get one bit of help from my friends. It's a day I'll remember pretty much for the rest of my life. |
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| UrbanCombat | Jul 14 2008, 02:05 PM Post #26 |
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Boyder, Pearson and Bellamy keep it real homies! They would help me out anytime. And they are such a good laugh. |
 
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| Shyne-Bryght | Jul 14 2008, 04:48 PM Post #27 |
Feeling Completely Undermined.
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Sorry to hear that Null, we got that kinda scum where I live too, but I've had nothing like that, but its good to hear you got some real close mates  Me, I'm the same story as iAn, and for some reason I find myself unable, or repelled by the though of getting to become close mates with people, sure I have mates, just nobody I would really confide in and that kinda stuff, as soon as I start to, or am having a great time with someone it just feels strange and I kinda hold back on it. I'm better being a friend in a group that one personal friend to somebody. |
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| ScarSnake | Jul 14 2008, 06:13 PM Post #28 |
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yes i have friends that i consider family, i refer to them as my brothers. I've known them for 18 years of my life, grew up with them... went through hard times with them. Oz, Pat, Tower and Big (nicknames) are my brothers and always will be. Without friends i don't know what anyone would do...maybe go insane probably |
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| Oli94 | Jul 18 2008, 08:44 PM Post #29 |
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I have two best mates that i have known since forever but i dont realy consider them family,i am always with my family really I am always with my cousins |
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| solidfox | Jul 18 2008, 11:29 PM Post #30 |
You're lying, I've been you
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I had three great friends that a I grew up with. One I met at 18 months old, since I'm hearing impaired I went into school at 18 months and we started to hang out before we could even finish a coherent sentence. Other two I met during Kindergarten. First one died in my school years because of a bad heart, but he'll always remain one of my best friends at heart. Another was killed on my birthday this past November...and the last I considered to be my best of my best friends. I was the godfather of his child, best man at his wedding and so on. But the bastard ripped me out of a shitload of money. So now I just try to keep all my friends at arms length. We can hang out, but I no longer want to let anybody into my life enough to consider them family. Cause it seems like even 18 years of friendship doesn't make your relationship solid. Anything can happen and I've already had enough loses in my past few years, I don't need to start making new friends just to loose them down the road. It seems like in the end these things bring more pain then pleasure. Edited by solidfox, Jul 18 2008, 11:30 PM.
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| A-Yty | Jul 21 2008, 04:39 PM Post #31 |
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If you've found people like that, you are extremely lucky. But I'm sure you realize that.
Many times. It's one of the main reasons I don't have that many friends anyone. Edited by A-Yty, Jul 21 2008, 04:39 PM.
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- So, is it true? Was Big Boss really your father? - That's what he said. That's all I know. - And you were able to kill him, knowing that? - Yup. - How? - He wanted it. Besides, some people just need killing... No, wait..scratch that. ..This is good, isn't it? | |
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